Energy: The Missing Link for Loving Relationships

By Master Stephen Co

All relationships are based on life-force energy. Rela-tionships are built and destroyed by the energies cre-ated by our thoughts, emotions and opinions.

Positive relationships reflect intimacy in every aspect of togetherness: mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. The energy of a loving couple in an intimate relationship blends in a harmonious way, allowing love and good emotions to flow between them easily and freely. Conversely, when a couple is in a poor relationship, arguing and fighting, the energy fields don't blend and flow. They actually clash and repel, manifesting as even more painful friction.

Pranic Healing's simple, step-by-step techniques show you how to disintegrate conscious and subconscious negative energies lodged in chakras, meridians and auras. Since Pranic Healing® uses our life-force energy to heal, it can heal relationships as well as bodies.

When we project love, love is projected back to us. We literally manipulate energy to create positive effects and invoke healing. Mentally, the thoughts we project onto others truly have power. Most people don't even realize that projecting bad thoughts towards someone, even without saying a word, can make that person weaker. On the other hand, thinking thoughts of health and love about the same person can help develop positive traits. We should remember that this is true of the thoughts we think about ourselves, too! The energy field does not care if thoughts are positive or negative — it absorbs whatever is sent.

On the mental level, people often put their partner's faults and weakness under a "microscope" rather than focusing on the positive traits. An easy technique is to mentally enhance the positive qualities your partner has, no matter how small. Silently do an inventory of their positive qualities, mentally praise him/her for them, then later tell the person how awesome and special they are. Watch them try to live up to your praise!

An effective way to begin creating physical intimacy is to develop a proper physical contact. From an emotional standpoint, focusing on another person's positive qualities builds intimacy. Too often people focus on the negative, ignoring positive traits, even taking them for granted. Take each positive quality and visualize it, affirm it and nurture the other person with it. For example, if your mate has several faults, but is good at keeping a checkbook, compliment that trait.