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Key to Relationships:
What is Your Passion Lifestyle?

By Beverly E. Taylor

Beverly E. Taylor, hypnotherapist, offers a fast change method called The Easy Key to Life™.

What is your Passion Lifestyle? What are you passionate about doing and how often do you do it? Do you yearn to be a parent, spouse, entrepreneur, business manager, healer, artist, party animal or something else? Is your passion spending or saving? Is your passion meditating and going within? Do you have a passion to play golf or dance? Do you love to go out or to stay at home?

It's very important that your partner's Passion Lifestyle complements your own, as this creates harmony in relationships. People often overlook the other person's Passion Lifestyle when looking for a mate. Think how challenging it would be for a woman whose Passion Lifestyle is to be a mother, and she's married to a man whose Passion Lifestyle is to be a party animal!

Successful Partnerships

Analyze how your partner or prospective partner lives their life and whether that complements your life or not. Successful partnerships are created when two people share common or complementary interests. If you are a man who wants a wife at home every day, it might be challenging if your wife's Passion Lifestyle is to travel for business. If you are a woman and your Passion Lifestyle is to be a mother, it doesn't work to have a man who doesn't want children. Yet, two people can have different Passion Lifestyles that complement.

Find common interests. Can you support and nurture someone whose Passion Lifestyle is completely different than yours? If you are a party animal ask yourself if it will work to have a reclusive partner? If you have a passion to meditate and do yoga every evening, will it work if your partner has a passion for watching TV in the same room? If you have a passion for dancing, will it work if your partner does not? Yet it can be complementary if a father's Passion Lifestyle includes taking his kids to the park and his wife's Passion Lifestyle is to have a free afternoon to relax and read a book.

Opposites Attract and May Complement

Very commonly, as the saying goes, opposites attract. As we move on our life path, our superconscious drives us to become more balanced and centered. If we are very passive, then the universe will ensure we receive experiences to reach the middle ground, maybe from a partner who is controlling. We subconsciously attract partners that will encourage our personal growth. This "encouragement" is often subconscious or can occur by the partner pushing our buttons. When this happens, we are being given the opportunity to choose to grow and heal.

Questions to Ask Yourself:

Do you like being at home every evening and weekend? Do you want your partner to be the same or different? Do you want to be a parent? Does your partner want to be a parent? Are you a party animal? Is your partner the same or different? Do you talk a lot or listen mostly? Is it deep discussion or talk about the weather? What does your partner do or what would you prefer? How much time do you spend with people, alone, outside, at events, with computers or TV? Are you optimistic or pessimistic? Is your partner the same or different and do your Passion Lifestyles work well together?

When You Have Differing Passion Lifestyles:

 • See if there are limiting beliefs, negative emotions or core issues in the way of one of you opening up a true Passion Lifestyle that's trapped inside. These can be released with the Easy Key to Life™ Hypnotherapy Method or other modalities.

 • If there isn't anything to heal or no desire to heal from one or both of you, then either you split up, possibly live a mediocre life with your partner, or figure out something that works for the two of you. Sacrifice can be a spiritual path. There are many, many paths, and it is always your choice.

 

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